Highly interesting list you posted there. Do you know where i can read more on that on the web? I love this learning together.
Following your list if i meet someone in denial, i would aim at getting them angry. One who is depressed i would try and help reach acceptance. In practice i just do what comes natural. Seems it is similar to your list. Besides the bargaining, i cannot place that yet.
Number 6 could be beyond suffering, the goal of the school.