UE and loneliness

[translator]

St.Petersburg, Russian Federation, 29 October 2008

Nguyên văn bởi Анечка

How do you manage loneliness and not being understood?
UE is changing people, but society around and friends are staying the same --- so you are not being understood and result is feeling lonely. So one’s forced to pretend, try to look like others on the outside, but inside… how do you manage your soul?

Mine is rather sorrowful. You try to help others change on your own example, maybe little, but they don’t want it. How can we keep on living with them? Or should we just accept things as they are and always feel lonely? And how about family? Having children? Parents are pushing… waiting for grandchildren --- and I’m just tired of avoiding the truth. How should we keep on living in this world?

[istvan]

Dear Anechka,

As start walking on the path of spirituality and we work more with UE our frequency will change. So will the society around us. If people do not want or cannot adapt to our frequency they will go on their own way and others will come around us.
In my case in the last 10 years the circle of friends changed completely several times. Now i meet people who can function at this frequencies or are interested in spirituality. Some only stick for a short period of time to teach us something or they need to learn something from us.
At seminars we were told several times that we are like "lighthouses" and souls see this light. This is true for wondering souls and for social relationships also.
I would say accept yourself as you are and it is enough to want to meet the right people and they will come. Loneliness is not so bad use this time to evolve.

Regards,
Istvan

[farhad]

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29.10.08, 18:25, paola@shyitalia.com:

Dear Farhad,
I try to answer to the St. Petersburg girl.

We cannot do anything for our loneliness. We must try to understand the
others and not the others to understand us.
Our beloved Master was very lonely even if he had lots of people around him!
Ask yourself why you came down on earth and you will find the answer.
Love from Paola


> Dear Paola,
>
> Below is just one of questions being asked on Worldwide UE students forum.
> This one is a new discussion thread started today by a girl from
> St.Petersburg that attended your L13+/++ seminar in September:
>
> "UE and loneliness
> St.Petersburg, Russian Federation, 29 October 2008
>
> Quote:

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> There are also many other issues where your experienced comments would be
> of
> great value.
>
> regards,
> farhad

[farhad]

soon after the first post...

Nguyên văn bởi Анечка

Guys, don’t you think I’m pitying myself here --- even if I am alone, I am quite happy.
I feel pity for people around – I want to help them, change this world, make it happy --- all these traditions, obligations, misconceptions, relationships…. My gosh… all of it doesn’t seem right somehow. I go against that, but they call me stupid... How we, humans, are to keep on living in this confusing world?

from Minsk, Belarus

Nguyên văn bởi максим

Anechka, there is no point in changing others. Those whom we need, will stay in our life, those who are unneeded – will go away by themselves. I can’t tell you anything regarding loneliness, as I actually love it and get tired of being surrounded by people for long. As for the marriage, I found good ideas in O.M.Aivankhov’s book "Spiritual galvanoplasty." I meditated on them with the book for about a year - I got married later, and I’m quite happy.

[translator]

Moscow, Russian Federation, 29 October 2008

Nguyên văn bởi ramzy

Анечка, try to find Master Dang’s book “The UE and Love”. If you can’t, we’ll try to post it to you. In there Master writes: “...Vietnamese say: "Happiness is following spiritual path, love brings trouble only ". I don’t teach you to follow such a path. I’m showing you how to follow the spiritual path to reach happiness, and what kind of love leads to suffering. Following the spiritual path is happiness. Enlightened love will not lead to suffering, on the reverse, the enlightened love will make you happy. ....True love is not enough, other good qualities of love are also important: knowledge, understanding, tolerance, forgiveness, care, sacrifice, respect, affection etc. – the more are the qualities of love, the happier you are......Humans need exchanging, cooperation – we avoid loneliness. People suffer if lonely. A lonely person cannot develop any abilities, but s/he can be thankful to society. The greater is the number of people we are in contact with, the better we become, otherwise our capacities will be decreasing.

Personally I’d like to add that loneliness is good when you need it to enter a new cycle of your development. Higher Beings give us these moments to become aware of our essence. But it will pass as soon as you change your attitude towards yourself. The desire to change others has an air of "feeling important". I hope you’ll understand me correctly, I’m in no way trying to offend you. But "feeling important" is one of the traps of our EGO, when we want to change all and everything, as if we think we already reached the truth and have the right to change somebody at will. Maybe you should instead try to understand that we are all different, and all we need to reach this time around is to learn accepting others the way they are, respecting their opinion. And maybe they are indeed the ones changing us, and we shouldn’t try to change them. In his last interview "New Spirituality” Master said: “I recommend you to love low and evil people and always try to help them. Because they sacrifice the possibility of being better people to play the role of a low and evil to give the lesson to humanity, so ones for others to be able to learn and develop. They might be unaware themselves that they are working for God. Learning on a bad example – is a valuable lesson for us to be able to avoid repeating these mistakes. This is the only way we can develop naturally. As for happiness in marriage – well, meditate on the issue of spiritual partnership for joint spiritual development, reaching the wisdom of the body and enlightenment of the spirit. And you’ll be given your spiritual partner. And I think you won’t have to wait for long… But everything is in the hands of the Almighty. Only faith can beautify your love towards all those around. Wishing you Love and faith, my dear